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    Saturday, February 25, 2012
    ;9:15 PM
    Wow.. it has been more than a year since my last post. I guess yiwen and jojo are the rare few ones left updating their blogs regularly. hhaa

    A lot has changed in the past year. Have been through 2 jobs, have grown fatter, fitter etc etc. However am still thankful that certain things have not changed. I still have the same group of friends and the boyfriend with me. While we are all settling into another stage of life, I am glad we have each other along this journey. Things have changed, we might not be interacting the same way we used to be (eg. xinni drinking more now hahha :X etc etc) the friendship we share has not changed.

    I'm enjoying the new freedom being in the workforce has given me, but am facing a lot more responsibilities and challenges than before.

    I don't know when the next post will come, but hopefully it will still be a happy reflection of my life. :)
    i love sushi!

    Saturday, January 15, 2011
    The Chase ;9:22 PM
    2 weeks into my new job. THANK GOODNESS it is only a temp job. I'm still in search of a perm job.
    I shall reiterate, THANK GOODNESS IT IS ONLY A TEMP JOB. I CANNOT IMAGINE WORKING LIKE THAT FOR THE NEXT GOD KNOWS HOW MANY DECADES.

    While the paper chase is over, I'm on to the job chase. Job applications, joining an association for the sake of getting a job (or about to join), reading up on various organizations, filling in resumes, looking through job postings. goodness gracious me. all that work that goes into finding a job. But that's all the effort that has to go in, in searching for a job i feel passionate about. And then next, is to pray hard that they will accept my application.

    I am a people person. I will go crazy if I don't open that mouth of mine for more than lets say half an hour? haha. unless i'm watching dramas, whereby I suppose my brain is still interacting with the action on screen which enables my mouth to stay shut. haha. data, filing, arghh not my cup of tea, coffee or anything that goes into a cup. I know where I want to go, what I want to do. The question is only, specifically which one? and whether it will be a mutual selection.


    i love sushi!

    Wednesday, August 18, 2010
    ;12:53 PM
    tuition woes...
    it's irritating when u deal with adults (not the kids) who don't bring up issues when it's first proposed and make a big fuss later on
    i love sushi!

    Monday, June 7, 2010
    ;9:00 PM
    I suddenly reaslise how many things i have to do this holx. Ok, most of them are those bo liao stuff hahaha

    am aiming to finish part 2 of my assignment today and start on a bit of studying, but i'm so tired... zzz zzz zzz

    was supposed to meet hwee hong today. but the fever cum flu bug is spoiled my plan. then again, it doesn;t feel like a flu since my nose isn't running. But with baby dear away at his YPAP session, it means i can't whine to him. i hope i get well by tml, bcux i've got work to do (which is very hard to reschedule) and a dinner meet-up that i'm looking forward to. I want to be able to enjoy my food! hope i'll sleep it off later.

    weee!! must keep my spirits up!

    haix. time to tidy up my assignment. good thing is that the outline is out. rarrrrrrrrrrrr

    ps. baby dear gave my tiger a new chinese name =_="' "fei bo" - the direct translation of fat paws! arghhhhhh


    i love sushi!

    Saturday, June 5, 2010
    Hong Kong Tim Sum! =DDD ;12:34 AM
    I had dim sum for 2 days in a row with xinni. the 1st at victor's kitchen was planned, but the 2nd at rui chun was a random dinner place. but the food's yummy! so it's worth all the calories laid on. haha





    Victor's Kitchen



    this is carrot cake!! yumm
    the milk tea is AWESOMEEEEEEEEEE

    you tiao in zhu chang fen! special rite! haha
    i love sushi!

    Tuesday, June 1, 2010
    results!!! ;6:59 PM
    I'm very very happy with my results this sem! =DDD
    the happiest was knowing that i could do it!
    the only regret? i should really bang my head against the wall for not working hard from sem 1 onwards.

    but no use crying over spilt milk! and i can't say i have not enjoyed the days i spent slacking over the first 4 sems in NUS. opportunity cost, and limited resources!
    i didn;t do as well as expected for welfare econs. but nevertheless, i still love welfare econs!

    ps. i'm doing better for my sociology modules than my SW modules. someone remind me again what i'm majoring in???


    back to the expectations topic.
    even when expectations are ironed out, even when people come to understand the differences between expectations, things don't just end there. instead what comes after that? who gives in and who doesn't? who changes and who doesn't? how do we reconcile these changes we have to make with our initial expectations? things wouldn't work out if both parties refuse to budge, but neither would the ending be the whole happy-ever-after ending if one gives in, yet isn't all too happy or satisfied about it?
    understanding each other's expectations is the start of all problems, or only the tip of the iceberg, definitely not the end.
    haix. life is complicated.

    i love sushi!

    Sunday, May 30, 2010
    criminal minds 100th episode ;11:47 AM



    The 100th episode was heart-breaking and heart-wrenching. All the 99 episodes, I've never seen Supervisory Special Agent Aaron Hotchner drop a tear, not to mention cry. No, he's not void of emotions or numb to his job, rather he covers it well. Yet after 99 multiplied by 45mins of showtime, I watched Aaron Hotchner tear as his wife left her last words for him before she was brutally killed by a serial killer which also happens to be Hotch's arch enemy. Hotch's impressive. Even with knowledge of his wife's death, even as he sobbed his way into his house where his wife - now dead - and the killer were, he performed the duties of a FBI agent. That was impressive. The breakdown only came much later when most of the stuff was settled.
    What a heart-wrenching 100th episode that was. I knew that was going to happen because I read the synposis from wiki already. But to see the it play out like that on screen? It's way too heart breaking. Especially Haley's last words.

    I think I've found a show that's as good as Grey's Anatomy. And I hope to see the 200th and the 300th and the 400th of criminal minds. =)
    i love sushi!

    Monday, May 24, 2010
    Exam madness ;9:23 PM

    wee! what we went through during exam period!


    the pasta comes from the cafe in amk lib! what we usually had when we were studying there!

    that tongy is the tortoise xinni always brought with her to study! rarr poor thing. always kept in that bag hahha

    and criminal minds is the best crime drama i've ever watched!!! and i better 'un-glue' my eyes away from the screen before i screw up special sem. haha




    i love sushi!

    Thursday, May 20, 2010
    self-determination??? ;1:06 AM
    I was talking to baby dear about this, and i thought i wanted to jot down my thoughts for future reference. I have v v bad memory. haha. so every1 can skip the bottom or sit through a boring naggy post ! haha

    There is this big big ethical issue in social work which advocates self-determination except for situations of self harm, harm to others, or with legal consequences. After defining the limits to self-determination, we'd probably ask how do we define what self harm and harm to others is right? it's easy to tell the legal boundaries where provisions for self-determination can be made, but it's never a clear-cut case for self-harm and harm to others. Does self harm only entail actions that put the person's life in danger, or actions that has significant impact on a person's quality of life? think about a homeless person, assuming the low-crime record Singapore has is accurate enough, living on the streets probably wouldn't put one's life into much danger i guess. But with the lack of privacy or even a simple resting place where one can be totally away from the public eye, where one can feel fully secured, how can we say that it's not self-harm? i don't know about others, but my definition of self-harm does, and definitely includes significant impact on a person's quality of live. And while Singapore gets 1st in so many things, i'm pretty sure our society is able to provide a reasonable QOL for it's people. And yet, there are people homeless, some not because they deserve it, but because they refuse to accept help be it from the maintenance of parent's act or other services. Hence with adequate resources to aid, do we want to overlook the self-determination of our clients at times when we clearly see that they are harming themselves or others. But I guess the problem comes when people define the notion of self-harm or harm to others differently. I am not a good social work student, hence i wouldn't be able to tell you if any social work agencies have actually defined the notion of what the word 'harm' actually entails. But without a common definition, expectations differ and that's usually the main reason for conflict isn't it?

    I do not oppose the notion of self-determination, I think I do understand it's existence and the benefits, human rights etc that it brings about. And I question myself many many many times if I were a social worker and whether I would have superior judgement over my client to decide what is better for him than to let him make the decision. I stand by latter which leaves the power in the hands of the client, but the line has to be drawn somewhere. Where do we draw the line between actions and situations that harm and do not harm? Sometimes we think we have a common understanding, but when we dig beyond the surface, we realize that we might have different ideas of where to draw the line.

    and i guess i do have to think about where I draw my line at. Yet i'm aware that this line is also determined by the agency that i'm working with in the future...

    i love social work and sociology!
    i love sushi!

    Thursday, May 13, 2010
    ;9:49 PM
    sometimes i do wonder if i'm in the wrong major. i love social work, but sociology fascinates me. but sociology wouldn't be able to offer me the career that studying social work could offer. rarrr

    i hope i spend this holiday meaningfully!
    ps. meaningful as defined by me!
    i love sushi!